28.10.11

True? Not True?


Its funny how you get hurt by someone you love so much and still love him/her.. Don't you think so? People tell me that a couple that quarrels often won't last or they simply just not meant for each other. True and not true. One of the many cause.. I say true because sometimes most of girls expect guys to be sensitive with what they want, how they're feeling. Fail to do so leads to an argument. And after several arguments, the best conclusion, break up. Most guys aren't usually that sensitive enough. It takes time for guys to be more sensitive. But still, breaking up is never the best solution to settle things.

It's not true either that couple that often quarrel won't last. Why? We all have patience, wisdom, etc.. Have your time alone. Think for solutions. You choose to be negative, the result's gonna be bad. You choose to be positive, the result's gonna be good, obviously. In a relationship, it's not about just love, holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc.. Its about life. Learning how to be a responsible person. To have commitments. Going through hard times together. Its about perseverance, determination, motivation.. Understanding one another is an everyday thing. We can't understand a person in just one day, not a month, not a year. Nobody is the same everyday. Even in a relationship, it changes everyday. That depends on how you think. It is very important, in a relationship, to think positively. Its normal for a couple to quarrel. Sit down, talk, fix it, change for the better.

No matter what it is, hang on. We're all human and as we all know it, we're not perfect. Not even close to it.. Be positive and learn. Love is a beautiful thing, if you treat it well..